If you’ve read Deeper Than Game, then you know that I said you should not have to approach more than three girls before having one all starry eyed over you. I’m not saying that you should just be able to get a phone number, I’m saying that you should have a chubby girl that is really, really, into you. This past weekend, I picked up the very first busty girl that I approached. She kept grabbing my hand and kept trying to put it around her waist. That scenario is pretty normal for me. At the worst, I’ll have a oversized girl all over me by my third approach of the night. I partially explained how I pick my targets in Deeper Than Game, and today I’m going to elaborate. If you’re playing the numbers game, then you’re doing it wrong. You should have an idea of what types of BBW are going to go for a guy like you, and then only spend your time approaching them and not every girl in the bar.

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Almost every guy that I’ve seen in the field will just approach any BBW that he sees. These are the types of guys that just shoot everywhere and hope that something lands. They really have no clue of whether they’re going to get the busty girl or not. They’re just going to go into a set, say what they have to say, and then hope that a girl is attracted. At best, I see some guys try to do a million displays of higher value in order to try to get an oversized girl attracted. It is incredibly difficult to get enough DHV’s without making a mistake and losing the girl first (or having her not interested enough to respond when said guy contacts her again). So what are guys doing wrong then? The problem here is that almost every guy who attempts to game a chubby girl doesn’t understand the concept of attraction leverage. When the typical guy approaches a woman, he slowly tries to build attraction leverage via DHV’s. I, on the other hand, only go into sets where I have a lot of attraction leverage right away.

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What exactly is attraction leverage anyway? It is something that you have that will cause a chubby woman to be attracted to you almost right away with very little effort on your part. For example, I’m a tall guy. If I approach a busty short girl, I have a lot of attraction leverage because she probably doesn’t get too many shots at landing a tall guy since most men go after tall women first. She might get approached by a lot of short men, and averagely tall men, but rarely does a tall guy approach her. In this scenario, I would have a lot of attraction leverage and it would be pretty easy for me to pick up a shorter girl. On the other hand, my height might not work as well on a taller girl since she gets her pick of tall men and they aren’t so difficult for her to attract.

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Or let’s say that I’m hanging out at a dive bar, and I just happen to be dressed really nice. If I approach a chubby girl, then I’m going to have attraction leverage because I am dressed much better than her. In another example, let’s say that I went after women in their thirties then my age might be leverage that I can use to get instant attraction. But what if I don’t have anything physical that I can use as attraction leverage? Then this is when I rely on my humor. I know that I can make almost any busty girl laugh really hard, and I can use that as leverage to get almost any big girl that I want. On the other hand, if I approach a girl that is tall, looks like she has a lot of money, is exceptionally beautiful, and for some reason I’m not in the mood to be funny or can’t make her laugh, then I don’t have any real attraction leverage. In this case, I would be better off not even approaching her at all or just leaving to go find a girl that I have attraction leverage against.

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With this in mind, understand that this basically means that just because I can do something doesn’t mean that you can do the same exact thing and expect to get the same chubby girls. For example, let’s say that I’m just wearing a t-shirt and jeans and am able to get girls. Does this mean that you can wear the same thing and get the same girls easily? No. Why not? Because I might have something else going for me that is probably giving me a lot of attraction leverage, such as my humor. If I approach short BBW and very easily get them, even without being funny, then does that mean you can do the same thing? No, because you might not be a tall guy and have that same wow effect on short girls. You really have to use your head with this. If you’re a scrawny guy that isn’t very tall, then perhaps you might need to invest in a few expensive diamond jewelry pieces to get the same wow effect with those same BBW. If you’re one of the foreign looking guys that said girls probably don’t like, then you might have to bring an incredible sense of humor or incredible muscles.

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If you’re just going into random sets and yapping your mouth, then you’re just gambling in a game that you most likely can’t win. And even if you do get the occasional hot girl by going into random sets and yapping your mouth, then I can guarantee that there is some kind of attraction leverage at work. She has probably slept with a ton of guys and it’s not difficult to sleep with her, in which case you might have to worry about STDs. If you get a oversized girl that you wouldn’t normally be able to easily get, then you need to be suspicious.

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Attraction leverage is basically Sun Tzu’s Art Of War applied to the game. Like war, you gotta know how to win the game before it even begins, and you do this by assessing what kind of attraction leverage you have, and then selecting your targets, or battles based on those resources. If you can figure out the attraction leverage concept, then you will know whether or not you have a good chance of getting the plus size girl before you even approach her.

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